Friday, 21 December 2012

Huge knock


The vegetables have been such a hit!
I made deelishus vegetable soup! I'm sure it would sell well in the top restaurants, its so good!




My friend sent me DVD's to help get me into me in shape.  Lovely music and easy to follow.
No problem,Wen, I'll look like this in no (literally) time! (Get it?!) Thanks Wendy.





I was in the bathroom and I heard Gundi screeching and screeching - getting more and more frantic. So I said "Here I am Gunds, come my girlie" and she found me! She is getting more confident. Later on I was in the kitchen and came back to the lounge where she spends most of her time and she wasn't there. So I called and she came scuttling out of the bedroom - she had remembered and gone in there looking for me. Now I see her looking for me at least once a day. Sean, you'd love her even more! What a treasure she is to me everyday! Thank you.

I went to the hair dresser.  The "Brony Salon" in Bantama, BS for short.  My normal (well he's not 'normal' - very much above average - he's really cute!) hair dresser in Pietermaritzburg kindly gave me some colour mix so that I could "wash that grey right out of my hair". What's the bet that Porks doesn't even NOTICE that I have had my hair done? (Head shaking, eyes rolling!)
It wasn't L'oreal but I am worth it!

I have avoided writing as I have had to try and pick myself up after a huge knock. We have been told that Porks cannot going home in January and can only go home every six months. Eish!  I am staying here to support him. We had booked a flight for Andrew to come home and join us and my mother-in-law's 90th birthday has had to be cancelled. She will just have to turn 90 years old on another day! My worm has just grown a couple of feet (in length - not those things on which they stand.) My glass and my cup are more than half empty at the moment. "Seal"! (in French).
It is so important to have something to look forward to, especially here, and now that light has been dimmed.  Despite all the love and encouragement that has been sent our way, I still feel like crying!



Okay, enough! There are thousands of people out there who have no jobs and who are battling though terrible tragedies of their own. I have had my say and now we carry on!




Tuesday, 18 December 2012

Christmas parcels

Jose` (`! )has had to go to a meeting in Kumasi and has offered to buy us some groceries.  One of the guys from South Africa has flown up for the same meeting.  Kelly and my special friends Wendy and Bridgette have managed to sneak some Christmas and love presents for me into this chap's luggage. I can't wait to see what is arriving!

We didn't feel like a heavy meal last night. I found another heart shaped muffin pan in the cupboard, so I lined it with bread, toasted it, spread a mixture of condiments over the bread and added an egg.  I then baked it and grilled it for the last few minutes.  (That is not bacon you can see, its just a "gemors" of things I could find in the cupboard.) Not too bad.
We had some cream from the top of the milk so I made a delicious bread and butter pudding as well.  I took a photo of the two things together.  See the priority of the type of food?  The only thing I didn't have was smooth apricot jam but used raspberry jam that I had sent up to Porks from S.A.
 
 We're not THAT greedy........
We did take half of it to Arno, a Brazilian, who sleeps at the hotel and eats his supper with the other Brazilian at the office.  He has a small room, no DSTV, just Ghanaian TV, but he does have air conditioning.  I felt sad as he has no kitchenette and no lady here to look after him.  He is going to Germany to his boys for Christmas though and leaves on the 20th December....hmmmmm, well then, I'm not THAT sorry for him.




This is the "stoodoot"/4 wheeler on which we go shopping in Bantama.  We could walk but some of us don't want to and Gundi is one of us.





Christmas has arrived early! Jose` and the driver arrived quite late back from Kumasi and he had bought us LOTS of vegetables....potatoes (I have not had one since leaving S.A.), lettuce, turnips, squash, real onions, aubergine, green pepper, beans...   wow...a  veritable veggie feast.  For the next few days its going to be "meat free Tuesday", "Vegetable Vednesday"....... (I don't know if Porks is as thrilled as I am!)
He also arrived with my parcels!
The one hugely unfortunate thing is that the chap from South Africa didn't have space in his luggage to bring everything that my Bridge and Wen gave Kelly to send up. So I just received a few things but then Christmas will continue in January when I get the rest of the love package!



I received seeds, dance and exercise dvds, books, magazines, pillow cases, exercise tights, suncream, lipstick and an ipod. 



I used the ipod this morning and the half an hour only took about fifteen minutes!?!



I asked Kelly to send up some pillow cases. The overly large green one has to be tucked under and it gets wrapped around my legs when I turn over. The new blue pillow case is the normal size that we are used to.







This is the colour of the lipstick you sent me Bridgie!  It's lovely, thank you!







I have asked Porks to get me a container filled with soil for Christmas.  I have been given other seeds from Charlz as well and still haven't managed to plant them as I have nothing to put them in. Maybe I have been a very good girl this year, we'll see.

                                       Yet ANOTHER sign that we just had to share with you!


Perhaps because Auntie Hazel and Auntie Sharon do not teach in Ghana! (Smiley face with a wink!)

Monday, 17 December 2012

Unexpected wobble

Gundi can measure!  She is now able to jump her front paws on the step the first time.  My little girl is growing up!
I changed my anti-mosquito cream and she doesn't like the smell!  She was sitting with Porks and after my shower I came through to the lounge and she cried for me. He put her on the floor and she scuttled across the room and climbed up to me and immediately I could see she was agitated. Straight away I said to Porks, "She doesn't like the smell!"  She kept trying to come closer, mewing gently, but then sniffed the air and went away.  Then back to me again, sniffing and  mewing backwards and forwards. Eventually she climbed under my clothes and settled next to my hip where there is no cream. I felt as if I had betrayed her!  Poor little thing.


There are many people who make charcoal and then take it to the side of the road where the lorry collects it and drives it to the main cities where it is sold.  Porks told me that sometimes there is a one-ton lorry carrying a three-ton load. I tight-white-knuckle it when we are overtaking it on the very bumpy roads!



There are 8 days to Christmas and I'll have to keep my chin up and try and think of something to do to keep my mind off my children being so far away.  Kelly (a.k.a. Kelly Nicholson) has been asked by so many of my friends to join them but she is going with her other family to Botswana.  One of their 3 biological daughters, Melissa, Kelly's friend, is in Australia and will also be feeling lonely as she'll be the only member of the Nicholson's not there. Sorry, Meliss, my heart and love will be with you and Brad!  Andrew has plenty of friends and will find someone to care for him in Cape Town. He always lands on his feet!
But, I'll have Porks, aaaaaaaaaaaaand GUNDI!

Funny place this....the longer one leaves the cold water running, the hotter the water gets.
By the time the water in the pipes is finished , the tank water takes over and its been in the hot sun all day.  If you want coolish water, act fast!

Anybody with the slightest OCD would have a problem at our house.  This is the falling off the wall almost every night shower!  Someone worked out where the connection should sort of go, but then missed the mark and didn't screw it into the wall properly.



The mini-shower wall on the right is just not quite parallel to the wall on the left!




The towel rack too.









The mirror too!


I did take these photographs late at night!?!




Porks went to work on Sunday morning and when he was due to come back I heard the 4 wheeler hooter go off. So I thought, he's hit the hooter by mistake as he climbed off. 30 Seconds later it went off again, so I waited and he still didn't come in. The third time it went off I got a bit irritated and thought "He had better not be hooting for me!!!" I thought of walking outside in my bra and panties and high-heels like that Diet Sprite advert and saying..."Let's go!" The fourth time, I did get up and I walked outside and saw the little bibinis (black children) from next door running out the gate! They had come in, switched on the 4 wheeler key and were pressing the hooter! (He had gone to work in the truck.)  Little blighters....bored on a Sunday afternoon!

I had an unexpected wobble on Friday. Nadiene, Kelly's friend, has a gorgeous little 4 year old daughter, Jordy. 12 Weeks ago, she had an operation on her hip and had to be in callipers for 3 months...no standing, walking or sitting. (Kell and I went to visit her in hospital straight after her op and there she was lying in plaster with her little legs splayed and an iron bar holding them in place. I said to her "You are such a brave little girl, Jordy" and she looked at me with her big eyes and in barely a whisper mouthed, "BIG girl!".) At her 6 week check-up everything looked fine but now that the 12 weeks are up the doctor has said it was unsuccessful and she needs to go through the whole process again. Nadiene also has a 1 year old son Warwick, and her husband is in Zambia! Poor little thing and poor Nadiene. Kelly told me that Nadiene had said that when they heard the bad news Jordy was comforting HER! (My daddy always said that girls have cups in their hearts that gradually fill up with tears and then one day they just have to overflow!) Well, according to Porks as well, my cup was full and the thought and picture of that precious, brave little girl (big, sorry Jords) wiping away her traumatised mommy's tears just got to me and I lost it. The good news is that my cup/glass is now half empty and will take a while to fill! The best news is that Jordy is alive and continuing to leave her special mark on this world!


Jose (I don't know how to put the thingy on the e) Porks' boss, sent me a bottle of Red South African wine. I have been feeling a little homesick this weekend and this just brought back lots of happy memories of game playing, boma braaing, cricket playing, over-eating, oobly doobling, fund-raising acting, dressing upping, laa-di-daaing, over-indulging (just a little), community supporting, skinny dipping, mostly memorable, and always laughing times with my wonderful family and friends! Thanks everyone! January here we come! As piglet said to Pooh..."Waaaaaiiiiit for meeeee!"



 

Thursday, 13 December 2012

One month down!

One month down...one month to go!  My worm is getting shorter!
This time next month we will be home in Pietermaritzburg, South Africa.

Firstly apologies, I haven't been able to connect to the internet since Monday.  I am also battling to get onto my email easily.  Bbm is easy and a wonderful invention!  We had to call in an expert, William, who spent an hour helping me with the connections. I am still learning and no IT geek.





One day a week the larger towns have a market day.  Wednesday is Kwame Danso's and because Porks had to buy some things for work, I went along to buy some onions and tomatoes.  Lorries from all over bring in plastic containers, shoes, underwear, jewellery, soccer attire etc., so we walked around to have a look.  Unless plastic shoes, size DD 46 bras or 20 litre plastic containers, no Christmas presents here.


Two stalls had Ghanaian material for sale. Bright, happy, loud material.  My eccentric late Auntie Doreen would have loved this!








I thought that this would be interesting for some of you.  These chickens were all standing in straight lines eating off the ground.  I was fascinated with their discipline.....until I saw that each one had one of their legs tied to a stick!  On the way back I made Porky take a photo as my hands were covering my eyes and I was peeping through my fingers. At least they were in the shade.













We stopped for petrol for the vehicle and also to fill up some plastic containers. Porks got back into the car quite indignant.  He said that the young lady had said to him, "You old, I'll pour!" and then laughed when he realised that she had actually said "You hold, I'll pour!"
We do have fun here!


We bought some plantain "chips" on the way home. Tasty! A little sweet from the plantain's natural flavour and a little salty from the additives.














Saw this beautifully clean and cool (literally) looking Salon and then saw the name! Not much faith in the beauty therapists! A sight for sore eyes in this dry and hot country; don't you think the decor is refreshing? I feel cooler just looking at the photo.

Porks has a thermometer on his Swiss Army knife I thought I'd show you the temperature recorded at lunch time today.  At 4 pm it was 44 degrees. This was in the sun, in the shade it was 36 degrees. Yesterday it was up to 50 degrees.  My poor man and the workers are out in the sun all day!            
It is accurate as indoors it displays 24 degrees, to which the air-conditioner is set.

I sometimes lie awake at night thinking about the blog and what I have written and realise that some things were not written accurately.  I said that the Ghanaians say cutlass for "sickle" instead of "panga."          (Well,......it's important to ME!)



Porks insisted that I put in a picture of the dressing table that I made.  The connection to the louvre handle was from a tie that was on one of my electrical appliances.  According to the one who knows everything I am quote just like "Godiva."





Monday, 10 December 2012

Tickets

Our tickets have been booked, so we are going home in January. Yooooo Hooooo!!  I think I understand about boarding school rules though.  Boarders are not allowed to go home before settling in properly (6 weeks at some schools) otherwise they might not want to go back to school again.  Going home any sooner and perhaps I might feel the same way!

When I get a comment on my blog it comes through to my blackberry as well as my computer. I sometimes reply on my phone when my computer is off.  Kelly has told me that I didn't reply to one of her comments and I had.  I have replied to every comment that I have received, so if you didn't get a reply from me, that is probably why and I apologise.  From now on, I'll only answer on my computer. Sorry!

I have found a more interesting way to walk around the house.  Every 5 minutes I change direction! I'm klever hey?

John Mahama, who is already in charge, has been voted in as the President of Ghana.



Tony's children's names are Michael, Phillip, Cynthia and Paul......excuuuuse me!  These are the two younger ones.  He told me that there are about 3000 people in Bantama, 1450 of whom are registered to vote.



Sunday:
We had to go and check on the burning and clearing in the bush this afternoon and within seconds of turning off the main road we were stuck.



We had to winch ourselves to a tree and pull ourselves out.



Thank goodness for Porks and thank goodnesser for the available tree!








It took about 20 minutes but by the time we had finished, all three of us were wet through.
Ghanaians do not use sickles to clear the land, they use "cutlasses".


We then took a drive to Tony's farm where we found out about rice. They plant in the rainy season and it takes three months to grow to maturity.  Rice is planted only once a year.


The seeds are picked and then boiled and the husks come off and the rice is inside.

I only know rice being planted in wet, muddy paddy fields, so this was a bit of a surprise for me. 




Yams are grown in a similar way to potatoes. The seed yam is planted in a hump of soil and then three months later, dug up.
Tony can get a supply of yams twice a year. 




 


 


Potatoes and sweet potatoes do not grow well here unfortunately. We really miss potatoes they are so much more tasty and versatile.


Groundnuts (peanuts) are grown in.... the ground, and reaped after three months.  They can plant groundnuts twice a year.  Tony told us he gets about 30 - 40 nuts on one little bush.

 
We had asked Josephine who works at the office to find us some roasted groundnuts and she arrived last night with about 2 and a half kgs.  They cost 8 Cedis but Porks paid 10 as R50 is still reasonable for this amount.




                                                           A pub in Bantama.
 
I can think of another one!


Sunday, 9 December 2012

Election weekend

Friday: Well, elections are on and I am loving it.  Porks only worked for a little while this morning.  Voting opened at 7pm and although closed at 5.00pm, there was a problem with the verification machine so they had to stay open until 7pm.  It has gone very peacefully.

 
 We decided to take a drive to Lake Volta.  


Driving through one of the towns we saw this and just HAD to take a photo!








We stopped to buy a boiled egg for Porks and I had roasted plantain.  A banana-like fruit but inedible raw.  It is considered to be a vegetable but is actually a fruit.  They are larger than bananas and are eaten at all the stages of ripeness, green, yellow and black.  Low in fat, low in sodium and no cholesterol. The whole plant is useful and the leaves have many medicinal values.
 

This lady had roasted fish, plantain and yam for sale, as well as little packets of ground nuts.  Everything we bought cost 50 peswas each, but the old school people say that we owe them 5000 for each item.  We nearly have a heart attack every time! They have had to remove some noughts to renumber the currency. 5 Cedis used to be 50 000 Cedis.












I commented to Porks on a number of occasions that the Ghanaians are house proud and I don't see much litter lying around.  The sand around the houses is swept clean and always looks tidy and neat.

He then explained why.  A contract company called "Zoom lion" collects all the rubbish and then throws it away on the side of the road just outside the town. So, as long as the town is clean "noworriesghana".

I said to Porks along the way, "Porks, this is fun!"  He answered gruffly, "Yea, like sky-diving!"

As we drove through more and more remote towns, it was like watching the Mexican wave.  The first shouts of " Oh, Brony" started (I found out its not Abruni its Brony, pronounced Bruni and the O or A beforehand is like Ohhhh...Brony) and the children further ahead could hear them and turned around to see and then continued the shouts until we drove through to the end of the town.


In between each little town the roads are straightish and sandy.  Most roads are terribly rough and potted but this one was quite flat and easy going.  I am trying to give you an idea of what the countryside looks like.  There are little towns every 2 - 5 kilometres and this is the vegetation in between. The reddish tinge is the dust on the vegetation.  More often than not, if you parted the long grass there would be cassava, mealies or yam growing behind it - someones farm.











We left home at 11.30am, drove 70kms, and got there at 2.00pm! We drove through Kwame Danso (not Kwama Danso as I have already told you!) on the wild sea road again and the bad road continued virtually all the way. We were down to 10kph at one stage.

At last we arrived at the Lake, after managing to persuade Porks every now and then to "Let's just go another few kilometres" and voila! there it was. Huge but unimpressive! The little town at the end of the road was horrible, run-down and neglected and we are glad to be living in Bantama, our neat little village! Porks agreed. There really is a silver lining around every cloud.

 

These two young chaps on the fishing boat have a massive white net on board and were folding it backwards and forwards so neatly so as not to tangle it.


 
This photo is just to show you the shoreline.  The lake is obviously much much bigger than what you can see. It's surface area is 8,500 km squared. I took my cozzie as I thought I might be able to swim.....glass half full me....but some ladies were throwing rotten oranges into the lake and we were too conspicuous anyway.







 In the middle of nowhere on the way home, we came across these neatly cut blocks.  Porks had been telling me that Italians have been coming to Ghana for years to cut timber for parquet flooring.  There were many more piles and a saw mill close by.



We bumped into Tony in Bantama and he showed us that he had voted (see little finger).  He is quite a high up chap in the community and is the local counsellor. He told us that even though there are different religions in this district, as well as different political views, everyone respects each other and all get on well.
 
 

Saturday:
As soon as the  truck or 4-wheeler starts up at our house, the children come running out to wave.  This was not posed.




We went to Atebubu this morning. We took Sarah with us as she is more au fait with where to buy the items that we cannot find. Sarah works at Porks' office where she cooks for the men that work there as well as any visitors that come on occasion.
Sarah told me that those desks we had seen are to replace the old ones and for new classrooms when they have been built.  I am sure they are going to weather before they are used.
 

I had seen these little cigar-like things before but didn't know what they were. Sarah told us that it is clay and people buy it to eat! Jeepers, I used to eat the beach sand when I was a little girl but there is no way I will spend money to eat dirt. I will try it sometime but Porks wasn't in the mood for me to try today.  He can only do 30 minutes of shopping and then hits his patience limit.




I have mentioned that people sell things from containers balanced on their heads.  They also have their own little stalls everywhere.  These are sachets of water in a stand.  Theresa (at our house) uses our fridge to freeze the sachets and supplements her income by selling them.







Porks went hunting this morning - his first best hobby - and found a large earthworm for Gundi. She smelled it and licked it but her new mommy doesn't know how to teach her what to do so eventually she left it alone. It lay around for a while and then I rescued it and put it back into the wild before it dehydrated and died.



She is a funny little thing. When she walks, she walks properly with alternate feet but when she "runs" both her front feet work together, followed by her back legs together, like a rabbit . It looks so uncomfortable but she can really move fast.



I nearly lost my blog!  I went on this afternoon and it said "Your blog has been deleted!"  Eish! Try as I might I couldn't get it back no matter what they told me to do. "Heeeelllpp Kelly!" She managed to fix it from South Africa as the connection here was too slow! I was so relieved to get it back as all that information would have been lost! What would I do without my very special daughter?